Back To Qiqi Farming To Raise Children

  Chapter 222 cheating father

  As the third generation of the Xu family, is Xu Haiyuan someone who can be easily subdued?

  Even if his mother pointed at him with a broom handle, this kid would never bow his head and admit his mistake.

   "Who told them to bully my sister? Whoever bullies my sister, I will beat him."

  In Xu Haiyuan's world, there is no right or wrong, he only remembers one sentence.

   "My dad said before that I want to protect and love my sister, and no one can bully my sister."

   Su Anying was choked and glared at Xu Shiyan angrily.

   "Everything I say is for nothing, your dad is good at talking, right?

  Okay, let your dad tell you, I don’t understand today, don’t come in the house and don’t eat. "

  After Su Anying finished speaking, she threw the broom on the ground and went into the house.

  Xu Shiyan didn't expect it, he was tricked by his five-year-old son, and now he can't laugh or cry.

   "Come on, son, let's chat." Xu Shiyan took his son's hand, and the two sat on the wooden pier.

  Xu Jinping stretched her head to look into the room, thought for a while, and sat on the wooden pier with her father and brother.

   "Is it fun to fight today?"

  Xu Shiyan didn't discipline his son, but instead talked to his son in a pleasant manner, and reached out to help his son wipe off the ashes on his face.

   "It's not fun." Xu Haiyuan pursed his lips and shook his head.

   "It's hard for him to hit me." Xu Haiyuan pointed to his chest.

  Xu Haiyuan is only four years old and three months old, but he has been taller than children of the same age since he was a child.

  In addition, the living conditions of the Xu family are not bad, and Xu Haiyuan is quite strong, so he looks like he is over six years old.

   For such a small thing, if he fights with older children, can he still suffer a little bit?

   This kid is just stubborn, he takes soft things but not tough ones.

  Su Anying called him just now, but he refused to give in. At this moment Xu Shiyan asked Yan Yuese, he couldn't help telling his father about his grievances.

   "Come on, Dad, take a look."

  Xu Shiyan lifted his son's clothes and took a look, but there was nothing unusual.

  Even if the child is older, his strength is still limited, so he won't be really hurt.

  However, Xu Shiyan still pretended to rub his son.

   "Look, fighting isn't that fun, is it?

  Actually, even if you win the battle, aren’t you also injured yourself? What a pain. "

  Xu Shiyan raised his hand and rubbed the top of his son's head.

   "Dad did say that you should protect and love my sister.

  Your sister was bullied and you beat her back, which is not wrong.

  However, fighting is not the only way, and, before fighting, you have to judge whether you will suffer a disadvantage.

  If you feel that the possibility of suffering is relatively high, can you find other ways? "

  Xu Shiyan feels that educating children is really a tangled matter.

   For example, children fighting today, is it right or wrong? You were bullied when you were away from home, do you want to fight back?

   It is enjoyable to fight violence with an eye for an eye, but it is very likely to put yourself in a greater crisis.

  If there were not Huang Shuqing and Sun Yu today, Xu Haiyuan and Xu Jinping would have been beaten up if they dared to fight with others.

   Then should we persuade the children to endure? It's also very confusing.

   In case the child listens to the words, he always endures and does not resist when encountering things in the future. In that case, it will only make the other party more and more arrogant and worse.

  So the speed in the middle is too difficult to grasp.

  Xu Haiyuan tilted his head, thinking about his father's proposal, "Then should I come back to find my mother? Let my mother find their adults?"

   After finishing speaking, the little guy curled his lips and frowned.

   "It's too troublesome. I don't need my mother to come forward for this matter. It can be done with one fist."

  In the little guy’s mind, those detours are too troublesome and ineffective, so it’s better to be more direct.

  Yes, after talking for a long time, it is tantamount to talking for nothing.

  Xu Shiyan looked at the sky speechlessly, how did he raise such a thing?

   Are you influenced by grandpa? That's not right, the child's grandfather lives on the mountain as an adult, how many days does he come back all year round?

  Besides, the old man's temper is much better now, he doesn't get angry very much, he laughs all day long, and he doesn't speak loudly to Xu Shiyan, so it is impossible to affect the child.

   Is that genetic inheritance? It's over, if it's hereditary, I'll just wait for the bear to clean up the mess in the future.

   "Such a violent brat, I don't know who you are with?" Xu Shiyan stretched out his hand angrily, and poked his finger on his son's forehead.

   "Well, I understand it, I can't let you go crazy at home.

  The school starts in autumn, you go to study, I will tell Teacher Qi to let you go to the school's Yuhong class. "

  Yuhong Class is a saying in this era, but it is actually the preschool class that later generations say.

  Nowadays, there is no such thing as a kindergarten. The place where babies are coaxed is called nursery school, and the place where preschool children are taught is called Yuhong Class.

  After many years of propaganda that reading is useless, even though the college entrance examination has been resumed for several years, in fact, there are still many people who don't value studying very much.

  Especially the rural people, there are quite a few people who think that their children can go to elementary school, as long as they can write a little and do some calculations.

  As for sending the child to the Yuhong Class, that's even more nonsense. Spending money to send the child out to be coaxed is money-burning.

   Whose children are not outside all day long? Just wait until you are old enough to go to the first grade. What kind of Yuhong class do you go to?

  In the Yuhong class of Donggang Primary School, most of them are children of workers.

  Especially when both parents are at work, no one is taking care of the children, so they are simply sent to Yuhong Class, at least someone will watch them.

  Donggang Primary School requires children to be seven years old before they can go to the first grade.

  Yuhong class is to prepare children for the first grade. The teacher will teach the children some pinyin and numbers, so the requirement is that children over six years old can go.

   Ordinarily Xu Haiyuan is not old enough, but this child is precocious, much smarter than children of the same age, and should be able to adapt to the Yuhong class.

  Anyway, it's not difficult for Xu Shiyan to find someone to send.

  For children, parents may not necessarily listen to what they say, but they must obey what the teacher says.

  Educating children should not be completely dependent on schools and teachers, but there is nothing wrong with children being educated by teachers at school.

  Xu Haiyuan's child is different from other children. It is obviously not a good way to let him be so crazy at home all day long.

   It is not a bad thing to study early.

   "Study? It's okay. Then I'm not at home, what should my sister do?"

  Xu Haiyuan has no aversion to studying, he only misses his sister. He went to study, so there is no one to accompany his sister at home?

   "Dad, I'm going to study too."

   Sure enough, Xu Jinping pouted on the other end, looking unhappy. She also wants to study, and she still has to go to university.

   "Pingping, you are still young, wait for another two years, Dad will send you to Yuhong Class, okay?"

  Xu Shiyan was tossed about by the two children, one of them grew up, and the two children were more difficult than the other.

  Son, he has a cold face and a vicious mouth. He looks like everyone else is an idiot all day long. With his powerful appearance, he actually knows how to take care of others.

   From his treatment of Yang Haoyu, it can be seen that as long as he likes it, he will definitely protect it.

  Girl, she looks obedient and obedient, but in fact she is weird and pungent, definitely a little pepper.

  Look at her today, she scratched that boy and even took a bite. I don't know what the boy's parents will do when they see it.

  (end of this chapter)